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Hi, I'm Corina. Developer, and practicing pseudo-psychologist.
Two things pushed me to build this. Dating apps frustrate me: they're built to keep you scrolling, not to actually help you find someone worth your time. And separately, I've been thinking a lot about the friendships and relationships I really value. There's this feeling when you just click with someone. I wanted to understand what that actually is.
So I went looking. The questions here are built on research that keeps showing up when you dig into what makes people work together: Gottman on conflict and repair, Bowlby and Hazan on attachment, Chapman's love languages, Schnarch on how much of yourself you keep when you get close to someone, Perel on desire and independence, Sternberg, Big Five, Schwartz. The good stuff.
None of this predicts the future. A low score doesn't mean don't bother. A high score doesn't mean it'll be easy. It just means you go in knowing more than most people do.
If you got this far, you probably also think there's a better way to do this than swiping on photos.